🤔 Morning thoughts (November 6 - 12)

Every Sunday I share a quote and a reflection on it for each day of the week.

Themes of the week: struggle, friendship, boldness, fear, solitude, character, judgement

Sunday - November 12, 2023

"Who you are is defined by what you’re willing to struggle for."

Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

The pain you endure defines you. In the dark times, pay attention and know you’ll be better for it.

Saturday - November 11, 2023

"As a friend, you want to maximize the value that you give to your friends, both things that you are and things that you do." 

Tynan, Superhuman Social Skills

Think of your relationships as exchanges of value. What are you putting in? What are you taking out?

Friday - November 10, 2023

"The world’s screwed up. Let people feel the weight of who you are and let them deal with it." 

John Eldredge, Wild at Heart

You should never be afraid of being bold and decisive. It’s just being yourself without limitations imposed by others. 

Thursday - November 9, 2023

"The amateur has a long list of fears. Near the top are two: Solitude and silence. The amateur fears solitude and silence because she needs to avoid, at all costs, the voice inside her head that would point her toward her calling and her destiny. So she seeks distraction." 

Steven Pressfield, Turning Pro

To hear your calling, create space. Time in solitued is never wasted. But create it intentionally and use it wisely. 

Wednesday - November 8, 2023

"The way we view the world is a confession of character." 

Wes Watson, Non-Negotiable

Every moment you’re broadcasting what you want the world to give you. Be mindful of what you put in.

Tuesday - November 7, 2023

"First, you have to be prepared; second, you have to find the right opportunity; third, you have to come through at the moment of truth." 

Robert Ringer, Winning Through Intimidation

Preparation helps you find opportunity. But is preparation + you acting on all the knowledge and skill you’ve acquired that makes opportunity find you. 

Monday - November 6, 2023

"The best way to talk yourself out of feeling judged by others is to stop judging others." 

Scott Adams, Reframe Your Brain

Give what you seek. Your inner experience will reflect your outer and vice versa. 

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P.S. In case you missed this week’s essay here it is.